Quakers believe that everyone is equal. This leads us to challenge inequality and work with people who suffer as a result of it. We oppose all forms of discrimination and champion diversity.
“Respect the wide diversity among us in our lives and relationships. Refrain from making prejudiced judgments about the life journeys of others. Do you foster the spirit of mutual understanding and forgiveness which our discipleship asks of us? Remember that each one of us is unique, precious, a child of God." Advices and Queries 22
Quakers in Britain are an LGBTQ+ affirming faith group. We all have human gifts and friendship to offer and we believe that all can equally access the divine.
The Honest Church Campaign
Honest Church is a campaign originally designed to encourage greater honesty about the true welcome that LGBTQ+ people receive in a church, and now extended to include honesty about women’s opportunities or limits in churches.
The aim is to prompt and enable churches to be more specific in their communication about LGBTQ+ welcome and women's roles, both in their publicity and when students, graduates and others come and ask questions about the inclusiveness of the welcome.
Q Are there any openly LGBTQ+ people in British Quakers at the moment?
A Yes, there are many openly LGBTQ+ Quakers. This includes people you might encounter in a Quaker meeting, people who serve on local and national committees, and people in public-facing roles on both staff and as Quaker representatives on external groups. Quakers do not ask or restrict people from giving service on the basis of gender or sexuality.
Q Would you marry same-sex couples?
A Yes. Quakers in Britain celebrate with equal joy the marriages of same-sex and different-sex couples. In 2009 we started campaigning for the right to marry same-sex couples in Quaker meetings for worship. These became legal in 2014.
Q What is said about LGBTQ+ relationships from those in positions of leadership? Are they affirmed and celebrated?
A Sexual orientation and gender identity are sacred gifts and LGBTQ+ relationships are affirmed and celebrated. Quakers do not ask or restrict people from giving service on the basis of gender or sexuality. There are LGBTQ+ Quakers who serve on local and national committees, and in public-facing roles on both staff and as Quaker representatives on external groups. Quakers also understand conversion therapy to be a form of inhuman and degrading treatment. Freedom of religion or belief cannot be used to justify it.
Q Do you have a policy about inclusion, in particular thinking of LGBTQ+ people?
A Quaker commitments to inclusion are based on discernment through our local and national structures. Discernment is a Spirit-led process of communal decision-making which all Quakers can participate in. Local Quaker meetings may also have created statements of welcome or be part of bodies such as One Body One Faith or Inclusive Church.
At our Yearly Meeting in 2021 Quakers nationally set out an explicit affirmation and welcome for trans, non-binary and gender diverse people. Before this, Quaker discernment around LGBTQ+ inclusion tended to focus on marriage and the equal celebration of committed relationships. In 2009 Quakers in Britain formally recognised same-sex marriage and began to campaign to change the law. Same-sex marriage became legally possible in 2014. How we understand, think and act on inclusion necessarily changes over time. We are learning and growing together as we continue to live out the Quaker testimony to equality as a loving and faithful community.
Q Do you think people in the church are generally supportive of trans people and their right to live as their authentic selves (for example by transitioning)?
A Generally yes, the vast majority of Quakers are supportive of trans people and their right to live as their authentic selves. Quakers have more to do to truly be inclusive and recognise the need to keep listening and learning together. In 2021 Quakers in Britain affirmed trans and gender diverse Friends and committed to providing “places of worship and community that are welcoming and supportive to trans and non-binary people" and that work continues. This includes young Quakers who all have an equal right to participate in Quaker events and experience belonging in Quaker community.